I have to think about this, and experiment.
I also note that the actual value of the terminating resistance should not affect the signal amplitude too much, although it should normally be around 75 ohm, not far larger or smaller.
I'm sure now that now I know what the problem really is, I can find a suitable solution.
It seems I was simply blind to the fact that the signal was far too large 5V instead of about 1V, but I realize that now.
thanks all who helped, and gave me insight into the problem...
